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Dear Mr Hunt,
My problem is that l can't get on with my
family.Relations between my parents have become difficult.They fight a lot,and I really don't like it.It's the only communication they have.I don't know if I should say anything to them about this.When they argue,It is like a big, black cloud hanging over our home.Also, my eoder brother is not very nice to me. He always refuses to let me watch my favorite TV show.Instead he watches whatever he wants until late at night. I don't think this is fair. At home I always feel lonely and nervous. Is that normal? What can I do?
Sad and Thirteen
Dear Sad and Thirteen,
It's not easy being your age, and it's normal to have these feelings.Why don't
you talk about these feelings with your family?If your parents are having problems,you should offer to help.Maybe you could do more jobs around the house so that they have more time for proper communication.Secondly,Why don't you sit down and communicate with your brother?You should explain that you don't
mind him watching TV all the time.However he should let you watch your favorite show.I hope things will be better for you soon.
Robert Hunt
亲爱的亨特先生:
我的问题是我无法与我的家人融洽的相处。我父母之间的关系已经很不好了。他们经常吵架,我真的很不喜欢他们这样。吵架是他们唯一的交流。我不知道我是不是应该对他们说点什么。他们一吵架,我就感觉有一团乌云悬浮在我们家的上空。还有,我哥哥对我也不是很好。他总是不让我看我最喜欢的电视节目。而他自己却可以看他喜欢的任何节目,一直看到很晚。我觉得这不公平。在家里我总是感到孤独和紧张。这正常吗?我该怎
么办呢?
伤心13
亲爱的伤心13:
在你这种年龄是不容易啊!有这样的情绪很正常。你为什么不把这些感受和家里的人谈谈呢?如果是你父母有问题,你可以给他们一些帮助。也许你应该在家里多做点家务,这样他们就有更多的时间做适当的交流。另外,你为什么不能坐下来和你哥哥好好沟通呢?你可以向他解释,你并不介意他整天看电视,不过他应该让你看你最喜欢的节目。希望你的一切会很快好起来。
罗伯特.亨特